Magi from the East had seen a bright star in the sky and concluded that a new King of the Jews was born. They probably knew the Hebrew scriptures and prophecies regarding the coming Messiah (Num 24:17) and came to Jerusalem in search of this newborn King.
When King Herod received news from the Magi, he was frightened (Matt. 2:2) and planned to get rid of his competitor. Not that Herod believed the news but the rumour might spread throughout the city and evoke a rebellion. Herod requested the Magi to bring back news about the exact location of the new King in Bethlehem on the pretext that he also may go and pay homage to Him (Matt. 2:7-8).
The Bible records that the Magi came to worship Jesus but it is silent on the number of Magi (Matt. 2:1). Some believe there were three Magi because of the number of gifts ... gold, frankincense and myrrh (Matt. 2:11).
The Magi apparently came some time after the birth of Jesus. By then, Joseph and Mary were living in a house (Matt. 2:11 c.f. Luke 2:7).
Possibility: Infant Jesus in a manger could be located in a cave-stable next to a house and it is probable that Joseph and Mary moved into a house shortly after the census when Bethlehem would be less crowded.
Meanwhile Herod waited and waited. Why were the Magi taking so long to come back? After offering their worship and their gifts, the Magi were warned by God in a dream not to report back to Herod. Herod was angry when he found out that he had been tricked (Matt. 2:16). The new King must be killed but which child was the right one? Herod gave the command for all male children two years and below to be killed. Why was this age criterion chosen?
Earlier, Herod had summoned the Magi to a secret conference in an effort to learn when the star first appeared. The order issued by Herod showed that the Magi probably first saw the star two years before their arrival in Jerusalem. The new King could not be more than two years old in compliance with the earliest appearance of the star (Matt. 2:16). If every child two years and below were killed then surely the new King would be included in the massacre. Perhaps this time reference also indicated that when the Magi visited Jesus, He was probably not more than two years old (but not an infant). This time lapse could also account for the fact that the family was now living in a house.
We do not know how many Magi came to Bethlehem to worship Jesus. But we know that when they arrived, Jesus was probably a two-year old toddler and was definitely living in a house. This conclusion is different from what we usually tell our children that three wise men came and worship baby Jesus who was in a manger in a stable. What is the issue here? The issue is the basis of our beliefs ... is it what we hear or is it the Word of God?
One must be careful not to believe what is believed everywhere, and by everyone without checking it against the Bible. Similarly, one must not simply accept as truth what is being taught by anyone, even a well-known scholar/pastor. Open your Bible to verify or disprove the message you hear. The Jews in Berea listened carefully to what Paul preached and compared it to the teachings of the Hebrew Scriptures (Acts 17:11).
Now these were more noble-minded
than those at Thessalonica,
for they received the word with great eagerness,
examining the Scriptures daily,
to see whether these things were so. Acts 17:11
Verification with Scriptures will help guard us against false teachings and cults. If our children are old enough to read then we should also teach them always to counter-check what they hear with what the Bible says.
Note: If we think that young children would be captivated by the nativity scene of Jesus then show shepherds (not the wise men) worshipped baby Jesus wrapped in swaddling clothes lying in a manger (Luke 2:12,15-16).
Question to Ponder: How would you help children differentiate between shepherds and the magi?
The magi visited Jesus in Nazareth (not Bethlehem) and here is my argument.